How to Choose the Right Vancouver Family Photographer
Choosing a family photographer can feel surprisingly personal.
You’re not just hiring someone to take photos, you’re inviting someone into your family’s space, rhythm, and relationships.
As a Vancouver family photographer, I often hear parents say they’re worried about their kids’ behavior, about what to wear, or about whether their family will look “good” in photos. My hope with this guide is to gently shift that perspective and help you choose a photographer who feels right for you.
Start With How You Want the Photos to Feel
Before looking at prices or availability, pause and ask yourself one simple question:
How do I want these photos to feel when I look back at them years from now?
Do you imagine something playful and full of movement? Quiet and intimate? Light-filled and slow?
Some photographers focus on posed, polished images. Others, like documentary family photographers, focus on connection, interaction, and real moments. Neither approach is better than the other. What matters is choosing a style that reflects your family’s personality.
If you’re drawn to images that feel honest and lived-in, that’s an important clue.
Vancouver Family Photographer: How to Choose the Right Fit // Lorenza Tessari Photography
Look Beyond “Perfect” Moments
When browsing a photographer’s website or Instagram, look past the highlight reel.
Do you see:
- Children moving, not just smiling?
- Parents interacting naturally, not holding poses?
- A range of emotions — curiosity, tenderness, silliness?
A good Vancouver family photographer won’t just show perfect behavior or ideal light. They’ll show families as they truly are.
This is especially important if you have young children. Real life doesn’t follow scripts, and your photos don’t need to either.
Consider How the Photographer Works With Kids
Every photographer interacts with children differently.
Some rely on direction and prompts. Others allow kids to lead the session.
You might ask:
- Do they expect kids to sit still?
- Are breaks allowed?
- Is curiosity welcomed?
From my experience, the most meaningful images happen when children feel safe to be themselves, not when they’re asked to perform.
Think About Pace and Pressure
Family photography doesn’t have to feel rushed.
Ask yourself how you want the session to unfold. Slowly? With room for pauses? With space for connection rather than constant direction?
A photographer’s pace shapes the entire experience. A calm, unhurried approach often allows families to settle into themselves — and that ease shows in the images.
If you’re already carrying a lot as a parent, choosing someone who reduces pressure can make all the difference.
Location Matters — But Comfort Matters More
Vancouver offers beautiful settings: beaches, forests, urban spaces, studios filled with soft light.
A thoughtful photographer will help you choose a location based not only on aesthetics, but on what feels right for your family.
Some families thrive outdoors. Others feel most at ease at home. There’s no wrong choice — only what supports your family best in this season.
Vancouver Family Photographer: How to Choose the Right Fit // Lorenza Tessari Photography
Notice How Inclusive the Work Feels
Family doesn’t look one way.
When choosing a photographer, notice whether you feel seen in their work and language. Do they photograph different family structures? Do they speak in a way that feels open and affirming?
Feeling safe and respected allows you to show up fully — and that trust is essential for meaningful photographs.
Trust Your Instincts
Sometimes the right photographer isn’t the one with the biggest following or the trendiest style.
It’s the one whose words resonate. Whose images feel familiar. Whose approach feels gentle and human.
If reading a photographer’s website feels like exhaling, that’s worth listening to.
A Final Thought
The right Vancouver family photographer isn’t there to create a perfect version of your family.
They’re there to witness who you already are.
If you’re looking for family photography that’s documentary, child-led, and grounded in connection rather than performance, I would be honored to document this season for you. You’re always welcome to reach out, ask questions, or simply see if my approach feels like the right fit for your family.
Because these days — loud, quiet, messy, tender — won’t stay the same forever.
And they’re already enough, just as they are.
FAQ: Choosing a Vancouver Family Photographer
How far in advance should I book a family photographer in Vancouver?
Most families book their photographer a few weeks to a few months in advance, especially for spring, summer, and fall sessions. That said, availability can vary, and it’s always worth reaching out even if your timeline feels short.
What style of family photography is best for young children?
For families with young children, documentary or lifestyle photography often works well. This approach allows kids to move, explore, and be themselves, resulting in images that feel natural and relaxed rather than posed.
Where do family photography sessions usually take place in Vancouver?
Family sessions in Vancouver can take place outdoors (beaches, parks, urban spaces), in a studio, or at home. A photographer can help you choose a location based on your family’s comfort, energy, and the season.
What should we wear for family photos?
Comfort is key. Neutral tones, soft textures, and clothing that feels like your everyday self tend to photograph beautifully. Most importantly, choose outfits that allow you and your children to move freely and feel at ease.
How do I know if a photographer is the right fit for our family?
Beyond portfolios and pricing, trust how the photographer’s work and words make you feel. The right fit often feels calm, reassuring, and aligned with your values — especially when it comes to how children are treated and how sessions are paced.
Vancouver Family Photographer: How to Choose the Right Fit // Lorenza Tessari Photography
Ready to Create Something Real Together?
Let’s tell your family’s story — the way it feels right now.
Want to learn more or book a session? Send me an inquiry. I’d be honored to create something magical with your family.
Find me on Instagram: @lorenzatessariphotography
